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A Humility Training Exercise for Technical Interviewers

tl;dr Humility is an important quality in technical interviewers. Our data shows that interviewers who are strongly confident in their own abilities give less consistent interview scores. Interviewers who are aware of their own weaknesses (and of how noisy interviews can be) in contrast, give more consistent scores. We've developed an exercise to help train interviewers in this area.

Programming interviews are noisy. Two interviewers judging the same candidate will often reach decidedly different conclusions about the candidate's skill, even in the same specific area. This noise is a significant obstacle to interview accuracy. Reducing this noise is one of the primary goals when training technical interviewers.

Training Interviewers

We train a lot of interviewers at Triplebyte. We employ a team of 40 experienced engineers to conduct interviews with candidates as they go through our platform. When we train new members of this team, we focus on several things. We make sure that interviewers are strong and up-to-date in the areas they will be measuring (it's surprisingly hard, sometimes, to distinguish a candidate who gives an unusual answer because they are an expert in an area from someone who gives an unusual answer because they don't know what they are talking about). We make sure that interviewers have clear guidelines for what skills they are assessing (this is the best defense against pattern matching bias in interviewers). However, I now think it's equally important to train interviewers in humility [1].

Lack of recognition of your own weaknesses is a major source of interview noise. This is true because overconfident interviewers judge candidates too harshly. The field of software engineering is broad enough that no single engineer can master it all. However, we all convince ourselves that the areas that we have mastered are the most important. And we don't fully respect another engineer if they are weak in an area where we are strong (even if they are very strong in other areas). In interviews, this manifests as a bias against candidates whose technical strengths are dissimilar to those of their interviewers. We measure this at Triplebyte by having multiple interviewers observe and grade the same interview. The effect persists even when interviewers grade areas unrelated to their own strength, and even when they use structured grading rubrics. Interviewers just give lower scores to candidates who are not like them. This is noise. It makes interviews less accurate, and we need to reduce it.

The solution, we've found, is to train interviewers in humility. Interviewers who are aware of their own weaknesses (and aware of how noisy interviews can be) are less influenced by areas other than the ones they are supposed to be evaluating, and give more consistent scores.

An Exercise to Build Humility

So, how can you train interviewers to be humble? How can you make yourself more humble? The answer, I think, is to experience what a candidate goes through. Interviewing for a job is humbling. You get grilled. You have to remember things you've not thought about in years. Smart people point out embarrassing flaws in your logic and code. You never know quite as much as you thought you did. And almost everyone fails a good percentage of their interviews.

We've developed an exercise that we use to let our interviewers experience being a candidate. At first we tried simply asking interviewers to interview each other. This did not work, however, because they were not able to give honest feedback. If you interviewed your co-worker and ended up thinking that they were kind of bad, would you tell them this honestly? Most people in this situation wouldn't. We needed to get around this somehow.

The solution came unexpectedly. The exercise actually started while I was trying to hire for our interview team. Part of the evaluation process that I used was asking candidates to interview me (it got really meta), and, in order to make these interviews more interesting, I gave a mix of (my attempt at) good and bad answers. I immediately noticed how this got them to give honest (and humbling) feedback--even on my “good” answers. From this experience, we developed the following exercise to train all our interviewers in humility:

  • Pair up with a co-worker, and have them ask you some of their favorite interview questions.
  • Tell them in advance that you are going to intentionally answer some of the questions poorly (role-playing answers that a weak candidate might give).
  • Then, as the interview progresses, do exactly this. About half the time give your best answer. The other half of the time give an intentionally poor answer.
  • After the interview is over, ask your co-worker to critique your answers.

What this does is free your co-worker to be 100% honest. They don't know which parts of the interview were really you trying to perform well. Moreover, they are on the hook to notice the bad answers you gave. If you gave an intentionally poor answer and they don't “catch” it, they look a little bad. So, they will give an honest, detailed account of their perceptions.

Be careful with this exercise! I've done this a bunch, and it's deeply humbling. It almost always results in someone you respect pointing out things you're bad at. And it has some potential to create conflict. I think it should probably only be done inside teams with a good degree of internal trust (the danger is convincing team members that other team members are not very good). But the result is powerful. It highlights clearly both the extent to which strong engineers are weak in certain areas, and the extent to which interviewers jump to conclusions about what a candidate means. I think everyone who conducts interviewers should put themselves through this exercise.

Conclusion

It's important for technical interviewers to be humble. This creates a better experience for the candidate, and it also makes interviews more accurate. The best interviewers are aware of their own limitations, and have a healthy appreciation of how capricious the process can be. To get better at these things, interviewers need to spend more time as candidates, being interviewed themselves. It's hard to create this experience among co-workers, but we've come up with a (dangerous!) exercise that does a pretty good job.

I'd love it if people tried this exercise more broadly. I think it might be something that should become standard for interview teams at most companies. If you give it a try, email me at ammon@triplebyte.com and let me know how it went.


[1] I've interviewed over 1000 people since starting Triplebyte. Some of the them probably don't feel that I was humble when I spoke with them. All I can say to this is... I'm sorry if I did a bad job interviewing you. Everything I write about here I apply to myself.

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David Howell

That's very interesting insight. It reminds me of double-blind tests in medical science . You could extend it by getting the interviewer to ask a mix of real and fake questions - without telling them which are which - to see how interviewees react to things they could have no knowledge of, and interviewers behave delivering unknown real/fake questions. I respect when people are honest about not knowing something. The interviewers could deliver a fake question straight faced or they might call out that they think the question is poor, and they might get it wrong;it could be a real question that the candidate knows or the candidate might pretend they know it, many possible outcomes.

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Thom W

I think I would also add the words: honesty and empathy. This applies to the interviewee and the interviewer. It's important for me to have candidates who are honest about what they know and don't know. Often times, the interview process can be stressful and daunting, this is where empathy comes into play. This means giving the interviewee some psychological safety. _It's okay if you don't have the correct answer but please share your thought process?

The interviewer should ask questions that they have some understanding of what they know so that questions can be asked intelligently. Don't ask questions you don't know the answer to. Often times if I ask a question and the candidate doesn't know the proper answer to, I'm looking to see if they're curious and willing to listen to the answer I given them. I've found that some candidates try to give answers to topics or terms they have no idea about and that is lack of honesty. And I usually try to tell them that it's okay to not know the answer to these questions. But, what I'm hoping for is that they'll follow up their own question and seek how the correct answer. It's more often than not, I want to look for ability to critically think and learn. You can't do that if you're not honest about what you don't know.

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Woody Butler

Interesting read! One question I would have is do any employees being interviewed by coworkers feel like they must be "acting" in some way, in order to deceive and hide the poor answers? Without entering this trial myself, I wonder if I would be able to on the spot think of a "bad answer" to a question that still seems reasonable / isn't giving away it's my true best effort.

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Rémi Lavedrine

That is a very interesting method.
I do particularly love :

This is true because overconfident interviewers judge candidates too harshly. The field of software engineering is broad enough that no single engineer can master it all. However, we all convince ourselves that the areas that we have mastered are the most important. And we don't fully respect another engineer if they are weak in an area where we are strong (even if they are very strong in other areas).

And so, because of our lack of humility we are never going to know their strengths and we are going to miss an opportunity to hire a very good engineer and be able to know from the beginning what are his weaknesses and be able to train him, work on them, etc...
Which is indeed invaluable.