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Ben Halpern
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What do your friends and family think software development is like?

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Shubhendra Singh Chauhan

@ben I don't think I can ever give more appropriate answer than this πŸ‘‡πŸ˜ƒ
mylife

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JoelBonetR πŸ₯‡

That's worryingly accurate πŸ™ƒπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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notsoavailablemako

sad life

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Raksit vaja

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ forget all things just focus on making GIF's

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Gass

hahahaha! this is freaking hilarious!

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Aileen Rae

In general my family think I "work with computers" so I'm the go-to for fixing WiFi routers, changing mobile phone settings, updating computers, etc.

I try to tell them this is not a web developer's job, but since I am a bit more technically proficient than them and I can find the solutions via Google they remain unconvinced.

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jonah-butler

exactly, the fam knows you're a software developer and suddenly we are the Geek Squad too.

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Mahmoud Harmouch

One picture that sums it all up:
software engineer

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Alhassan Kamil

Most of them have no clue what I do. Some be like: "wow, you're really patient arranging those words in such a nice way". When they come closer, then they'll begin to complain: "mmm, they're not even meaningful words; you just like typing on your laptop".

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Bruno

They think it's more about "math" than it really is.

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Eelco Verbrugge

So true, but what is it really about according to you?

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Constantin

Logic and abstraction

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Lou Willoughby

My parents and partner have no idea what I do, my partner really tries to understand but when I show them something I’m really excited about they just look at me like πŸ‘€πŸ‘€

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Chris Greening

Man with mullet and old glasses with text that says Hackerman

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Tawhid

That's a classic!

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Chris Greening

System.out.println("Time Hacked successfully.");

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Meir Gabay

That I work in the Matrix

Especially when they see the terminal running some npm install or cmake .. Those 483648 lines of output do the trick

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Tawhid

and mine is when they see me do sudo apt-get update with zsh and powerlevel10k

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Tawhid

Just four words:
black magic &&
Tech Support

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jonah-butler

and google

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Stephanie Handsteiner

They think I'm an entire IT department and can fix all of their IT related problems.

I mean, I do fix their problems, but most of the time, I just do what I always do (aside from moving rectangles around to make a coherent UI of them): I professionally Google the answer. Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

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Doug Schwartz

Don't forget they wonder if you hack into the CIA, NSA, FBI web sites.

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Jackson Kasi

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Gass

hahahahaha! great stuff.. felt super identified when he was watching the video

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Jackson Kasi

πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚

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Brad

"can you fix my printer?"

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Thomas Hansen

Classic ^_^

I typically avoid such questions by informing them about the following ...

Fix your printer? I don't know how to create bold characters in Word!!

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Jean-Michel Plourde

They do know I do software development on different projects and that it's complicated, but otherwise they don't understand. When they ask about what I do, I mainly explai what kind of project I work on which is mostly work for various startups. I have friends that are software engineer, computer engineer and robotics engineer that do understand what I do and it's always a pleasure to finally have people to talk about it with.

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Tobias Nickel

"ohh, you can get a job everywhere, they are looking everywhere for programmers".

because they can not understand how deversly different these joblistings are.

i don't know ML, i dont know java, i don't know ...

i wonder how difficult companies make it for themselfes, using too many tools and expecting candidates to know all of them.