To wrap this up: I'm glad we had this discussion, and I'm surprised by amount of people reacted.
I'm glad that a lot of people say that the wording is bad, but the message is legitimate.
I'm disappoined that a lot of people say that I should have stayed silent.
Thanks. I'll try to word my comments in a more positive, inclusive and encouraging way as you suggested; though I think I'll just get more warnings and violations anyway.
And I never received any responses to my questions from the original AMA starter.
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