I'd say start with either C# or Java. They both allow you to work with pass by value and pass by reference. They enforce static typing which forces young coders to think about how they are developing. And both have huge enterprise and enthusiast communities behind them.
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I'd say start with either C# or Java. They both allow you to work with pass by value and pass by reference. They enforce static typing which forces young coders to think about how they are developing. And both have huge enterprise and enthusiast communities behind them.