There is a huge difference between Western Pakistani Women and Traditional Pakistani Women.
I've observed that all Traditonal Pakistani women tend to highly religious. Some will read the Quron and others will pray. This makes sense given that women tend to be on average more spirtual that men.
All of them spend the majority of their time inside their house. Some may choose to walk outside, but they must wear a garment that covers them from head to toe and they must always be accompanied by a man.
The younger ones spend alot of time on their phones. This is somwhat concerning given that high phone use is often associated with reduced attention span, low verbal iq, and general mental conditions such as depression and anxiety. But what else are they supposed to do beside watch instagram reels all day? They have little opportunities to travel to their friends house, to go outside, or to even hold a part-time job.
The older ones watch dramas and tv most of the time which is a negative trait. But what are they supposed to do? They have little economic opportunities once they chose to became a housewife.
And the absolute stunning fact is that none of them clean the house. They get their maids to clean the house for them! So what exactly does a pakistan woman do?
The only 2 things that I can think about is that they Cook and manage the kids. Those are the only 2 things. Cooking is a fairly easy skill to master(and I'll prove it soon), this only leaves managing the kids.
A Western Pakistani women grew up in a system where an education meant the ability to work - Unlike in pakistan, where an education is just a piece of paper to validate a girl's intelligence during the marriage process.
Because an education granted them the ability to work, they were required to learn real-life skills such as how to communicate, socialize, and interact in their immediate environment.
These skills were also reinforced by the fact they held part-time jobs during their youth. And once they attained their education, they went into the proffesional environment where they earned good wages to buy a house and car.
They cook and clean for themselves as well since maids are expensive.
This begs the question - why would a westerner ever choose a traditional pakistan women? None of my pakistani friends have expressed any ambition and neither can I.
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