It’s not uncommon to see people in tech talk about the new stuffs that’s out there, and how awesome a technology is.
But… are most engineers really happy? I mean, the “real happiness?”
This is not something that’s talked about a lot and I’d love to hear it from you, if you’ve found happiness, what made it work? And if you’re struggling to find happiness, what really makes you unhappy?
I’ve got a few of mine too but I want this to be a discussion.
Happiness is attainable and we all deserve to be happy
Let’s talk!
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We have encountered this problem. It is important to have something else after work that we can do some hobby. The best thing is that you can see the effects tangibly.
if you’ve found happiness, what made it work?
"Sometimes" is my answer for that just because happineess is something you feel and do not get and keep it. Here is my point of view, happiness is something that you might avoid looking for outside, for example, feeling happy cause of a job change or a new relationship. As a senior developer, I realize that most of being happy every day is on me. It is about the way I deal with technical and personal challenges at the workplace. About the way I keep my delivery agenda organized and trustable, keeping myself updated, avoid being surrounded by toxic people both at work and in personal life, taking care of mental health consulting doctors... and many other small details
And if you’re struggling to find happiness, what really makes you unhappy?
Again, yes. I sometimes struggle to feel happy but I consider myself extremely grateful for what I have accomplished until today.
Well said, Angèllica.
Especially the part where you said
It would appear from all the contributions I have gotten on this post that, happiness is something the requires a conscious effort. And that being grateful for what one has and living without the pressures of what one doesn’t can really improve our mental health.
Thanks for contributing 🙏
I'd not say 'most'
This sums me up pretty much.
I'm happier when my work-life is balanced, and exercise is important for mental health IMO.
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I usually find discussions like these aren't really helpful (especially for people that are trying to enter the field). The title is misleading, since there are not any verified surveys or studies, and the answers can come from a biased standpoint or just not enough experience in the field to understand how things work. Every job is hard, especially in the STEM sector. It's the reason why the jobs are so lucrative. I believe the main reason you should be in the field is because your passionate about it. Being passionate will help you navigate through the tough times in your career (and trust me THEY WILL COME), and it helps you to navigate to positions that help you alleviate some of the frustration you experience at different companies, to find that sweet spot for you.
But there are just so many variables on why someone wouldn't experience "happiness" on the job from:
But, I believe the main thing, is to have passion for what you do. Without it, it will be hard to find happiness in the job.
The overall about working as a developer is great, but some people are stuck in their career/work because external factors and this added to the fact that sometimes this work put you on a lot of preassure make a lot of people unhappy of working in the industry.
Quite a number of people said this same thing, the pressure and expectations in this line of work is high
Mainly because its hard, subjective and ambiguous to measure the work to employers. Even harder if they don't understand the development process and the time it takes to make a solution to a problem. You can feel like you're going to be fired at any moment, even if you know that isn't your fault. The icing in the cake is that the main income of small/medium business are those people. If you are a junior or you don't work in a well managed project the pressure is enourmous and the inability to disconnect from it grim.
The one bit of advice that has stuck with me is to prioritize your mental health by maintaining a healthy work/life balance.
No, I won't work 12-14 hours a day for weeks/months.
No, I won't come in every weekend.
No, I won't work when I'm sick or I need to take care of a family member.
If your depression is caused by your job, change! It's important to do what you love to do. But if it's caused by something deeper, seek help and take care of yourself.
Valid points! 💯
Unfortunately, so many people are stuck in jobs they hate just to pay bills 💰
Most software developers are maintaining monster legacy code bases, where trying to add even a small feature results in 100+ new bugs in unrelated places, making it "impossible" to move the code forward in any ways, resulting in that they end up as "baby sitters" for past projects ...
Of course, this isn't true for everyone, but it's true for far too many ...
If you don't become depressed in such an environment there is something wrong with you ...
Oh, Thomas 😂😂
You just had to make my day with this comment 😅.
I can relate to this, I once worked on a project with super legacy and spaghetti code.
If I’d known the address of the developers that wrote them? I’d have paid them a visit and challenged them to a “Boxing fight” 🥊 for making my life miserable 😖.
It takes days to refactor one thing and even more to allow implementation for others, it’s literally a land mine 💣 waiting to take my soul!
Good news is I survived 😂
That part hit me like a tornado. That statement runs deeper than meets the eye
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Fortunately i come from a country that doesn't matter what you do anyone that has a brain is depressed🙂
Wow, I’m curious.
I guess it takes a lot to be endowed
It will not🙂