Trouble maker and Problem solver ⚙️🔧
Loves simplicity, hates bullshit 💩.
Productivity obsessed, avid learner 🖥🚀
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agree even though, expecially with kids, but with coworkers as well, i dont like much the word manipulation nor I want to reduce everything to the simple equation precise-instruction --> expected-result.
My goal as a father and lead is having genuine conversations, shared goals, and most of all I'd really like to develop this *attitude of proactivity. *
Don't stop at the precise instruction, don't follow orders.
I want you to question what I am saying, to ask questions if in doubt, take initiative if you think it's worth it, even go against what I said if it makes no sense and you think your idea is best. But not just do what i said, and stop at the first (valid) excuse.
But yes, reducing cognitive load and positive reinforcements are all part of the process.
thanx
Max is a life enhancer for tech & entrepreneurship. Which seeks to blend both to build innovative products or services for the world that solves hard problems.
To me whatever works and help to teach a life skill to the kid. But giving options and having them to take ownership is better. I would rather want the person to get me out of the way. Let them do the work while updating to me, what they had learnt or the result of the things they are doing.
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agree even though, expecially with kids, but with coworkers as well, i dont like much the word manipulation nor I want to reduce everything to the simple equation precise-instruction --> expected-result.
My goal as a father and lead is having genuine conversations, shared goals, and most of all I'd really like to develop this *attitude of proactivity. *
I want you to question what I am saying, to ask questions if in doubt, take initiative if you think it's worth it, even go against what I said if it makes no sense and you think your idea is best. But not just do what i said, and stop at the first (valid) excuse.
But yes, reducing cognitive load and positive reinforcements are all part of the process.
thanx
To me whatever works and help to teach a life skill to the kid. But giving options and having them to take ownership is better. I would rather want the person to get me out of the way. Let them do the work while updating to me, what they had learnt or the result of the things they are doing.