Man, I've been in a similar situation trying to assess start up offers in the past - its can be stressful!
My recommendation for anyone new to this (who may stumble upon this is), leverage the community to help you 🙏
Resources
1) teamblind.com website OR their phone app (I'm not affiliated, happy user for years)
people will happily answer questions related to job offers, startup equity, negotiation's, whether a situation is fishy & what follow up questions to ask.
2) manual.withcompound.com/
Wishing you the best Jane, you got this!
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Man, I've been in a similar situation trying to assess start up offers in the past - its can be stressful!
My recommendation for anyone new to this (who may stumble upon this is), leverage the community to help you 🙏
Resources
1) teamblind.com website OR their phone app (I'm not affiliated, happy user for years)
Wishing you the best Jane, you got this!