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What do you want to be when you grow up?

Ali Spittel on June 12, 2019

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George • Edited

I want to be working for passion, not for survival.

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Claudio Bernasconi

I am with you. I have a great job, a big enough salary, flexible schedule, yet I want to do something that is truly mine and that I am 100% in charge. It is unique to me, but this is what makes it a passion for me.

Everyone should have the gut to express their personal view of success.

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George

Honestly, my realistic dream is to own a house in an area I like with a dog(s) and family. Ideally working 2/3days a week optionally remotely with all major expenses paid off.

I want to have the time and money to be able to follow my interests. And if I have to still work a bit to get that, then fine.

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Alex Antra

This resonates too deeply

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Bryan Robinson

I want to be educating people on the topics I care most about.

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Ali Spittel

this this this this this

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Peter Witham

We need so many people thinking this way around the World on every topic that affects future generations.

Amen.

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Tamara Temple

don't wait, begin now

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Bryan Robinson

That’s the plan! Writing articles; making videos; released my first course early this year :D

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edA‑qa mort‑ora‑y

I want to be what I am now...

...but perhaps making enough money to survive. :)

To summarize, I'm a writer, programmer, cook, interviewer, poet, musician, masseur, coach, speaker, and more. I've got a million projects on the go at all times. I traded stability for chaos, and I love it, except for the financial part now.

I don't mix with grown up careers well. :)

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Ali Spittel

That is so freaking cool -- sounds like a dream to be able to combine all of your interests! I'm sure you'll figure out the income part -- you are so talented at so much!

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Remon

Really
How can one be all this things

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edA‑qa mort‑ora‑y

You try to juggle. Many things will fall and break. But you keep adding more. Eventually some things will stay in the air.

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Laurie

I want to be a person who is present for the ones that I love. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. There are so many elements to that goal: health, financial stability, work-life balance, etc.

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Ali Murteza Yesil

I also want to be who I am suppose to be. Though my description of "who I suppose to be" is different from what people expect of me.
I want to be close to my family, friends and who I see important.

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Bertil Muth

I can relate to that very much. And it’s not easy to balance the factors, I feel.

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Ben Halpern

To point to a semi-fictional archetype I would be happy to aspire to:

Brad Pitt's character in The Big Short.

This is probably odd because it is really a sad story full of sad people and Pitt's character may be the most honestly sad of all (sad in terms of emotions).

Hopefully I can accomplish this while staying happy and optimistic, but that character really understood how the world worked, he lived in a beautiful mountainous location and was there for mentees when they needed him (even if he was a bit grumpy along the way).

When designing my situation, I think about that character. I can tell I am going in that direction and I hope I can continue to achieve the good parts of that situation.

Along these lines, I really appreciated this post:

We humans must find a certain contentment in whatever situation we find ourselves in, but in terms of situations to position one's self to be in. This is my line of thinking. 🙂

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Yaser Al-Najjar

Loved that article, really thoughtful... Thanks Ben!

Would you mind sharing the results of the last six months of your experience after commenting on the article?

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Pandita

When I was around 12-13 I always imagined myself at 25 with my own apartment, at the pool with a margarita. I'm 26 and I don't have any of that ; ----;

But I still want to grow up into that image, but with the added bonus that the pool and apartment are in my personal island. B3

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Scott Simontis

I'm about to turn 28 and am in same position...no house, credit is a dumpster fire (but have a subprime auto loan on a badass sports car!) and I'm watching all my friends get married and settle down with kids and I am nowhere near any of that...I just keep hoping one of my random startup ideas finally pans out and I can sell out and live a more stable life...maybe next year

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Sandeep Balachandran

I just wanna simply sit somewhere watching my family having fun

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Vincent Grovestine

What did I want to be (before the harsh realities of life)?

...A meteorologist. (Damn you university calculus for crushing the dream!)

Today, what do I want to be when I "grow up" (aka retire)?

I'd like to buy a mini-excavator and dig holes for pocket money! :)

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Peter Witham

I love this idea, maybe call it 'caffeine commit'

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Greg Bulmash 🥑

Idris Elba

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Mary Thompson

lmao XD

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Gabi

I want to enjoy a more balanced life and have more saying in what i put my time and energy into. That means, being part of a team that creates and sustains something actually useful and having my free time and enjoying life more.

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Tamara Temple

to be honest, i no longer know. i think it's because i am a grown-up. after 4+ decades at this, i figure this is what i am as an adult. i guess the next thing is to figure out what i want to do when i retire. i sure will miss this, though

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Antonio Radovcic

Astronaut

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Rick Booth

A Unicorn.

Nah, I wish..

Probably either freelancing and having a month or two off a year to travel, or managing a small team of developers using the latest tech.

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Janderson Constantino

I want to be working traveling for other countries.

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Scott Simontis

I am liking management a lot more than I thought I would, but there's still one area of interest I haven't explored yet...DevOps. I have set up a homelab to expose myself to that side of computing and if I continue to enjoy it, ai might try to move into a Site Reliability Engineer role

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Ali Murteza Yesil • Edited

I think there are 2 ways this question can be answered.
Career: I want to be useful. There are people who have no access to knowledge and also there are people who are willing to not learn. I am quite annoyed by how eager people are to stay uninformed and away from learning even though they have access to WWW. Maybe a teacher to teach, sysadmin to keep knowledge servers running, businessman to sponsor poor kids.

Life: I want to be with my family and happy together.

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TiptoeSiren

Hello All:
I am currently teaching myself how to code for three reasons:
#1 To prove to myself that I can do it.
#2 To show little girls, it's never too late to do what you want.
#3 To improve my social skills for networking or just for friends in general.

Eventually I'd like to get into game programming and development. The immediate goal is website development for a family Company and that is what is getting my foot in the door.

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Peter Witham

It's taken many years, but I can finally say I'm doing exactly what I wanted to do when I grew up. Now I just have to keep it that way.

I am having such a great time managing a fantastic development team and doubling as the team lead. I get to stay hands-on with code, tools and everything else and I get to take the teams vision and help drive it forward.

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Max Ong Zong Bao • Edited

Angel investor to help tech startups and building future tech entrepreneurs.

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Marc

Well Ali, I’m 66 years on this planet and I’ve been developing software for 40 odd years of that time. I have to say I wanted to be a programmer/ developer.

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Matthew Daly

Captain Mal Reynolds, and no power in the 'verse can stop me!

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Burdette Lamar

OSS developer.

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bvmcode

I'm already old

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Mary Thompson

and living your dream?

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Jean-Michel Plourde

Curious. That's all I ask. I never want to be complacent with my knowledge. I want to learn for the rest of my days.

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Yechiel Kalmenson

An astronaut!

More realistically I'd like to finish my piloting lessons and then learn to fly gliders.

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Luke Bayliss

I want to lead my own team first. Then perhaps my own practice, or start my own consultancy

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Jonathan Cutrell
  • Helping other developers find clarity and perspective in their careers.
  • Living out my core value: understanding - for myself and for others.
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Jonathan Silvestri

Still have my eye on the stars, possibly.

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HaiDV

Earn money by my passion and buy whatever I want :D

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Omar Gaston Chalas

I'd like be a world traveler, maybe as a digital nomads.

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Diana Coman

I'm already grown up and quite happy with working on being precisely and exactly myself. There is no magic future - one is what one fills their hours with and that speaks for itself.

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Ryan Dsouza

I want to be the best at what I do, make lead a team and make it great, I also want to never stop learning.

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Ryan Zurrin

Accepted

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José Muñoz

I want to manage my own team of engineers and make them successful in all measures, and when I get too old, I'm going to teach college courses

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Mary Thompson

I want to be a lazy bum while my mobile app rakes in the dough #thedream

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aleBiagini • Edited

Really good question! I'd love to be a Game Dev, learn and grow every day, possibly pass the experience I got from this life to someone. Bonus: everything of this, but near to the sea.

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Rohit Gupta

I want to travel and explain my mistakes to juniors.

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Sandeep Gurram • Edited

I want to build my own company!!!

And Help the young and less fortunate in learning tech

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Nora Del Rosario

I want to maintain/create a product that helps people connect while being there for the ones I love. Also play more games/watch more anime

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Mike Ekkel

That's exactly what I want to do as well! I've always loved the idea of owning a cafe. If this whole tech thing doesn't work out, I might just go for it.

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Jean Karlo Obando Ramos

I dream with someday getting a job as developer in Google

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Sarah Dye

I want to be a front-end web developer that combines my experience as a teacher and love for UX together. I'd love to work Disney in some way.

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Nedy Udombat

I want to teach a lot, I come from a place with a lot of mediocre techies(not blaming anyone). One of the reason is due to lack of quality information and I would love help give them that.

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Florian Rand

Younger, but I think I grow up too much already.

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Max (he/his)

I would love to keep learning and teaching :)

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Desi

A writer.

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anpos231

I want to make enough to afford a rant.

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Aditya Padwal

The idea of cafe with code review for a coffee sounds great. I think I will try with Beer and call it Brew Commit

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edgarngg • Edited

This is a good way to check yourself for purpose. Ikigai

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David J Eddy

star ship captain :)

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Sam Ringleman

I am learning that I love educating people in software. Bringing others up and helping them flourish feels like something that will make a true difference.

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Remon

I want to get hired as a front-end dev

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Joshua

I want to develop interactive graphics and simulations. And teach people how to make cool stuff like that.

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Nadine M. Thêry

A passionate developer in a company with fancy couches and sofas :D

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Adam Crockett 🌀

🤔 That actually sounds really good, real sofas not those office pretend sofas that look kind of okay but you sit on them and it feels like regret and dust.

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Steve Layton

Heh. I wanna do something with computers.

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Christopher Kruse

I'll let you know when I figure it out. 😁

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kurisutofu

I want to own a company earning enough to have employees for whom I hope to manage it fairly so everyone is, if not happy to go to work, at least not dreading it.

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Paul Relf

young again

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Adam Crockett 🌀 • Edited

Well I didn't imagine myself here that's for sure. Life is like a tree of pruned branches, youl end up at master eventually.