Rejected, Not Deflected: My Journey After Out in Tech

Landing a mentor can be a game-changer in the tech industry. As an aspiring LGBTQ+ developer, I was particularly drawn to Out in Tech’s mentorship program. Not only does it champion inclusivity, but the project-based approach with a dedicated mentor seemed like the perfect fit for my learning style. Unfortunately, my application wasn’t selected this time around.

While rejection can be discouraging, it hasn’t deterred me. Out in Tech’s mission of fostering a supportive environment for LGBTQ+ professionals resonates deeply with me. I understand that competition for spots must be fierce, and I was eager to learn more. I sent a follow-up email to the program manager inquiring about successful applicant profiles and future program cycles, but haven’t received a response — a small hurdle in the grand scheme of things.

Instead of dwelling on the “no,” I’ve focused on the “how.” My hunger for knowledge hasn’t diminished. I’ve actively sought other avenues for growth. Participating in fellowships like DataTalksClub and 100 Devs, alongside earning a micro-credential from Queensborough’s Software Engineering Bootcamp, has kept my momentum going.

The tech industry demands not just technical prowess but also resilience. While a mentor would have been fantastic, this setback has ignited a fire within me. It’s a reminder that the path to success rarely follows a straight line. My journey may have taken a detour, but the destination remains the same — to become a skilled and impactful developer within an inclusive tech space.

This experience has underscored a valuable lesson: sometimes, the best opportunities arise from unexpected rejections. My dedication to learning hasn’t wavered, and I’m one step closer to achieving my goals. For other aspiring LGBTQ+ developers out there, remember: your grit and determination are just as valuable as your technical skills. Keep pushing forward, and success will follow.