Well I'd agree with you that the situation should be avoided in the first place. To me, that means when you talk with strangers, you should default to being very explicit and overly respectful, and become more loose as you get to know people better.
Yes, that's exactly it. Just don't look for hidden meaning when there's literally none :)
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