I haven't write for a while now over here because I started a new job that demands quite a lot of time and effort, and I've thinking about writing ...
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I would definitely move to see more girls involved in the security industry.
Security is a very large topic and I think that it can cover very technical to less technical topic. Which can be found as easier to catch for someone who doesn't want to be that technical (maybe some girls wants to, at least I know some and tried to advocate to say try the leap ).
Please continue to build and break things! It's so much fun anyways :D
And rest assured, there are people in the industry, that value other perspectives than the ones that reach us anyway.
There's no way to stop coding if you love it. I hope you'll be able to break all the social and cultural walls. Fingers crossed, Paula!