Well, sometimes you cannot choose. I am using Hexo for my website, but if a client wants a website on Hugo than you build the website on Hugo.
Also, I don't know which one is more flexible, but I managed to fulfill all client's requirements no matter which generator is in use. If you have problems, the community will help you. For example, I had a problem, posted it on Hugo Discourse, and got an answer in minutes.
You are absolutely right. But if you do your own projects you don't need a clients ideas)) And that's why I like Hexo. It's more friendly with themes and plugins ;)
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