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Discussion on: I Don't Know How To Take Compliments

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smuschel • Edited

For me, it's harder to accept a compliment or a thank you when it's for something I enjoyed doing. And if people thank me for almost everything it starts losing its value. But nonetheless solving a problem like the role-thing you mentioned is worth something to the person you've helped. Even if you only did a part of the job.
I've once been told that you have to be able to endure criticism, but you also have to be able to endure praise/compliments.
Also:in any social interaction, small things make a difference (for example on Sysadmin day I thank my sysadmin which usually puts a smile on his face)

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Jason Steinhauser

I wasn't aware there was a Sysadmin day. I'll have to take the time to thank ours next year!

You're absolutely right about enduring praise; I can take substantial criticism, but I'll have to work on accepting kind words as well.