Developing software solutions for too many years. The majority of my time has been either Managing Software Development efforts or as a Software Quality Engineer.
There is lots of great advice in the comments. Biggest thing about vacations is finding time to reflect on yourself & as many said do what you enjoy.
However, if you are on vacation with others the point of the vacation is to balance your enjoyments with the group. If that is what happened overall, then no guilt should be felt.
But, when a vacation is all for you, then CODE LIKE THE WIND. Or do whatever your mind & body is needing of you to enjoy your time away from work/school.
Bottom line, if you still feel guilt about the vacation then you need to talk to those important to you from the vacation to make sure your relationships are solid. Once that is resolved, then there wont be any feelings of guilt.
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There is lots of great advice in the comments. Biggest thing about vacations is finding time to reflect on yourself & as many said do what you enjoy.
However, if you are on vacation with others the point of the vacation is to balance your enjoyments with the group. If that is what happened overall, then no guilt should be felt.
But, when a vacation is all for you, then CODE LIKE THE WIND. Or do whatever your mind & body is needing of you to enjoy your time away from work/school.
Bottom line, if you still feel guilt about the vacation then you need to talk to those important to you from the vacation to make sure your relationships are solid. Once that is resolved, then there wont be any feelings of guilt.