Totally agree. I see too often people chasing the "successful person" schema and ending up being miserable, wondering how this could happen.
Everyone has to do his work and make his own failures. Of course, you can learn from other people, but don't blindly follow them, as their path might work for them well, but not necessarily for you.
Get inspired by stories but don't recreate them, create your own one :)
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