I hate code of conduct, it is not netiquette but arbitrary rules that usually are one side.
Anyways, my defense against it is: (and I still follow those crap rules).
I don't care about the sexuality, religion, country, race or how other people feel or believe because it HAS NOT RELATION WITH PROGRAMMING.
But I am a capitalist (and a professional), if you want to care, then pay. :-3
You can't please everybody, it is impossible.
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