re: What's your atomic bomb? VIEW POST


Overall, I've been lucky enough to dictate terms on who I'll work for and what I'll work on. Notionally, I've had less in the way of flexibility in decision-making since getting married (since consequences of decisions-of-principle effect more than just me). However, that was offset by having built a work-reputation that meant that people haven't typically wanted to ask me to violate my principles and/or I've had "outs" if I needed to demure.

All I can say is, my ability to look myself in the mirror has been greatly aided by not having gotten married early.

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