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Discussion on: How would you handle a conversation with someone who thinks "respecting an opinion" means "agreeing with it"?

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Daniel Brady

Yeah I think this might come across poorly πŸ€” So how would you claim that a more senior dev's understanding of their tools has a gap, without making them feel undermined? (Not assuming the OP is right or wrong here, just brainstorming better ways for them to voice that feedback)

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Daniel Brady

The "asking why" approach that others are suggesting might be good here. So instead of just stating their opinion is misguided, maybe asking Dev leading questions based on your own understanding to encourage deeper thoughts from everyone, and see if they come to the same conclusion as you.

I think any dev worth their salt should be eager to revise an opinion in the face of better understanding, but also able to articulate their position effectively to more junior devs so they can learn from you.

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Aleksandr Hovhannisyan

I don't really think this constitutes an anti-pattern in our case because XYZ.

Basically, I'd say exactly what OP was thinking, but without implying that the senior dev misunderstands the tools they work with.