If you're looking to host your own instance, have a look at pleroma, it's much more simple !
I'm really surprised I didn't run into Pleroma before!
I'm team Go/Vue, and I've entertained Elixir (and rust). You'd think pleroma would've popped up in my looking.
(Backstory: I'm pretty much convinced Go took inspo from elixir when they designed goroutines - one of my favorite things ever)
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