Coding is as much a matter of personal growth as it is of logic and control-flow. I keep patience, curiosity, & exuberance in the same toolbox as vim and git.
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To clarify, I heartily recommend feeling good about your employer, just not emotionally beholden.
Furthermore, I believe that your employer doesn't want you to feel emotionally beholden either. A good employer should recognize that a healthy relationship between them and the employee involves a measure of emotional distance, and that this distance is essential to maintaining productive and happy employees.
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To clarify, I heartily recommend feeling good about your employer, just not emotionally beholden.
Furthermore, I believe that your employer doesn't want you to feel emotionally beholden either. A good employer should recognize that a healthy relationship between them and the employee involves a measure of emotional distance, and that this distance is essential to maintaining productive and happy employees.