Sorry to hear that some people around you are not supportive about your career dreams. You are right in disregarding their opinion, anybody can be a great programmer or leader, regardless of gender. And we need more people like you, especially in areas where this kind of sexism is more prevalent, to change the mindset and prove that women are as good as men, so take courage and keep trying!
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