I am sorry I have offended you for possibly offending someone else on a social faux-pas which is the result of holding different ideologies that I may not be aware of.
I would ask that you apologize to me for calling me out publically instead of saving face by messaging me in private.
The post to which you are replying literally points out that intent isnβt important. Please read up on intent vs impact.
You're not the authority on what something "comes across" as.
Iβve known Vaidehi for 5 years. In that time, she and I have personally discussed these sorts of things from reply guys quite a few times. I have more than enough insight to have responded the way I did.
I am sorry I have offended you for possibly offending someone else on a social faux-pas which is the result of holding different ideologies that I may not be aware of.
I would ask that you apologize to me for calling me out publically instead of saving face by messaging me in private.
Jamie, please don't assume malice where there is none. You're not the authority on what something "comes across" as.
The post to which you are replying literally points out that intent isnβt important. Please read up on intent vs impact.
Iβve known Vaidehi for 5 years. In that time, she and I have personally discussed these sorts of things from reply guys quite a few times. I have more than enough insight to have responded the way I did.
I already said sorry Jamie, can you please stop.
That was a deflection, not an apology. Regardless, I wasn't addressing you.
Please stop, thank you.