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Amy Brown

As a coach I say, yes to all of this! Asking good (thought-provoking) questions is an important part of coaching, and as you advise, we strive to ask concise, open-ended questions, one at a time.

New coaches have a tendency to overexplain their questions or revise them as they speak - we call it "stacking". Better to just ask one question, however imperfect, than try to circle around the right question by asking three or four. The answerer will find their own meaning in the question you ask.

And of course, creating a trust-ful, non-judgmental space and actually listening are vital to a productive coaching relationship.